Prince Harry on 'bare-faced lie public was told' over William and Kate's wedding
He alleged that all was not as it seemed on the big dayPrince Harry once revealed that the role he played at Prince William and Kate Middleton’s wedding was, in his own words, a “bare-faced lie”.
The Duke of Sussex, now 41, appeared front and centre as best man on the big day. He proudly stood beside his older brother as William prepared to exchange vows with his bride.
Yet despite his high-profile position during the April 2011 ceremony at Westminster Abbey, Harry later claimed in 2023 that he was not actually the true attendant to the groom. He also hinted that the decision may have been made to divert attention away from the private lives of William’s close friends.
The comments have resurfaced just as the Prince and Princess of Wales prepare to mark their 15th wedding anniversary next week.
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Prince Harry, who had William as his own best man when he got married in May 2018, made the bombshell claim in his 2023 memoir Spare.
Harry also revealed how he felt about the wedding. He said: “I loved my new sister-in-law, I felt she was more sister than in-law. But in my gut, I couldn’t help feeling that this was yet another farewell under this horrid roof. Another sundering.
“The brother I’d escorted into Westminster Abbey that morning was gone – forever. Who could deny it? He’d never again be first and foremost Willy.”
Meanwhile, Harry went on to discuss the best man role at William’s wedding.
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He wrote: “The public had been told that I was to be Best Man, but that was a bare-faced lie.”
The public had been told that I was to be Best Man, but that was a bare-faced lie.
Prince William’s only sibling also suggested he wasn’t the first pick to make a speech at the reception.
He continued: “The public expected me to be the Best Man. And thus, the palace saw no choice but to say that I was.”
Prince William ‘didn’t want Harry making a speech’
Prince Harry went on: “In truth, Willy didn’t want me giving a Best Man speech. He didn’t think it safe to hand me a live mic and put me in a position to go off script. I might say something wildly inappropriate. He wasn’t wrong.”
Prince Harry also alleged that the palace decided to say he was best man to protect the identities of James Meade and Thomas van Straubenzee.
He also indicated William’s pals stood up to speak on behalf of the groom instead.
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Prince Harry claimed: “Also, the lie gave cover to James and Thomas, two civilians, two innocents. Had they been outed as Willy’s best men, the rabid press would have chased them, tracked them, hacked them, investigated them, ruined their families’ lives. Both chaps were shy, quiet. They couldn’t handle such an onslaught and shouldn’t be expected to.”
Despite this arrangements, Prince Harry was not put out.
He noted: “Willy explained all this to me, and I didn’t blink. I understood. We even had a laugh about it, speculating about the inappropriate things I might’ve said in my speech.”
Nonetheless, Prince Harry also said he did share a few improvised words at the reception, which took place at Buckingham Palace.
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He also reflected on the ceremony itself: “I recall Kate walking down the aisle, looking incredible. And I recall Willy walking her back up the aisle. And as they disappeared through the door, into the carriage that would convey them to Buckingham Palace, into the eternal partnership they’d pledged, I recall thinking: Goodbye.”
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